Protect a weekly hour each
Find one free hour for each parent every week in our calendars and block it as 'off duty'.
A protected hour each, sleep shifts and the mental-load audit. Not sure where to begin? Start with Protect a weekly hour each.
Find one free hour for each parent every week in our calendars and block it as 'off duty'.
Plan a fair night-shift rota for two parents with a newborn and a toddler, so each gets one 5-hour stretch most nights.
Suggest a 15-minute daily walk-and-stretch routine we can do with a pram and a dog. For pregnancy, check exercise with your family doctor or midwife.
Help us list every recurring family task and who carries it, then suggest what to share, automate or drop.
Every Sunday evening, send us 3 short questions for a 10-minute check-in about the week ahead.
Remind me every two weeks to message one friend I haven't spoken to recently, from a list I give you.
At 21:30, remind me to stop screens, and give a 2-line reflection prompt.
Find 2 hours this month for my hobby [hobby] without clashing with family plans.
Each night, ask me for one good moment from the day and save it. Send a monthly highlights note.
List local and national parent-support and perinatal mental health helplines in your country from official government sites, to keep on the fridge.
Suggest 5 well-reviewed books that fit parents of a toddler and a newborn: mix practical and reflective. Give a one-line summary and why it fits our stage. Prefer titles I can find at [library] or buy under your local currency [amount].
Before each workweek, flag evenings where work meetings clash with family time and suggest which to move.
When I say a nap just started, suggest one realistic 15–25 minute reset I can finish before they wake (stretch, shower, tidy one surface, or a quiet cup of tea). Keep the list short and kind; no guilt if I skip it.
These 13 prompts run biweekly, daily, monthly, once, quarterly, weekly. Set the schedule in your assistant, or paste the prompt again when it comes up.
No. 11 of these 13 are rated Easy: paste the prompt into your assistant and connect your calendar or email only if it asks.
Keep our house-rule line switched on when you copy and your agent is told to ask before it sends, books, buys, pays for, deletes or shares anything. Always review what it drafts.